About the song
Background of “Standing in the Shadows of Love”
- Released in 1966 by the Four Tops on the Motown label.
- Written and produced by the legendary Motown songwriting team Holland-Dozier-Holland.
- Considered a follow-up to their previous hit, “Reach Out I’ll Be There,” sharing some musical similarities.
- Became a major hit, reaching #2 on the soul chart and #6 on the Billboard Hot 100.
Themes in “Standing in the Shadows of Love”
- Unrequited Love: The song portrays the narrator’s despair and loneliness. He feels like he’s constantly “standing in the shadows of love,” unseen and unwanted by the object of his affection.
- Despondency: The tone is a stark contrast to the optimism of “Reach Out I’ll Be There.” This song deals with the pain of rejection and feeling left out.
- Yearning: Despite the despair, there’s a lingering hope that things might change. The narrator still desires the love he feels is out of reach.
Even though some critics saw it as formulaic compared to “Reach Out I’ll Be There,” “Standing in the Shadows of Love” remains a powerful song due to its passionate vocals and relatable theme of unrequited love.
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Lyrics
Standing in the shadows of love
I’m getting ready for the heartaches to come Can’t you see me standing in the shadows of love I’m getting ready for the heartaches to comeI want to run but there’s nowhere to go
‘Cause heartaches will follow me, I know Without your love, the love I need It’s the beginning of the end for me ‘Cause you’re taking away all my reasons for livin’ When you pushed aside all the love I been givin’ Now wait a minuteDidn’t I treat you right, now baby, didn’t I?
Didn’t I do the best I could now, didn’t I?So don’t you leave me
Standing in the shadows of love I’m getting ready for the heartaches to come Don’t you see me standing in the shadows of love Trying my best to get ready for the heartaches to comeAll alone
I’m destined to be, with misery my only company It may come today, it might come tomorrow But it’s for sure I ain’t got nothing but sorrow Now don’t your conscience kind of bother you How can you watch me cry after all I done for you Hold on a minuteGave you all the love I had now, didn’t I?
When you needed me I was always there now, wasn’t I?I’m trying hard not to cry out loud
You know crying it ain’t gonna help me now What did I do to cause all this grief? Now what’d I say to make you want to leave Now wait a minuteGave my heart and soul to you now, didn’t I?
And didn’t I always treat you good, now didn’t I?I’m standing in the shadows of love
I’m getting ready for the heartaches to come Don’t you see me standing in the shadows of love Trying my best to get ready for the heartaches to come Oh I’m standing in the shadows of love